DISCOVER HOW SATISFYING YOUR INTIMACY AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAN BE!
We are John and April Nixon, and during our 20 years of marriage, we've been counseling couples of all ages and backgrounds and helping them overcome a myriad of seemingly insurmountable challenges in their marriages.
If any of the following sound familiar to you, you’re in the right place!
- You feel lonely, unseen, and disconnected from your partner.
- You’re having intimacy issues and frustration in your relationship.
- The stress of kids, work, church, and bills has taken priority over your marriage, and you and your spouse feel more like roommates than lovers.
- You are irritated by or feel anger/resentment towards your partner because of past and/or present trust issues.
- You feel like you're in a good place in your relationship but want to take proactive steps to strengthen it, make it affair-proof, and take your intimacy to a new level.
- You are contemplating getting married, engaged, or newlyweds and want to set a solid foundation for a marriage that doesn’t suck!
HERE’S THE GOOD NEWS!
Maybe you and/or your partner have long been making excuses for a less-than-satisfactory intimacy:
- One spouse simply has a much higher sex drive than the other.
- With the stress of kids, work, church, paying bills, and other obligations, this is the best we can do - it is what it is.
- We've had trust/communication issues and they're not going away any time soon, so our intimacy suffers as a result.
- As Christians we're not supposed to... (insert ridiculous, non-Biblical, fake "pleasure-only sex is wrong" narrative here)
But no matter where you are in your relationship, as long as you and your spouse are willing to invest time and effort into improving your marriage, you could literally be a few steps from revitalizing your intimacy!
- Your marriage doesn't have to be a daily run-of-the-mill grind just because life is hard!
- You don't have to wait until holidays and special occasions to be intimate!
- You don't have to feel ashamed because your spouse doesn't respond to your advances OR because you are unable to fulfill them to the level that they desire!
- You don’t have to be prisoners of past problems that have sidelined your intimacy!
- You don't have to be resigned to a frustrating, mundane, and/or flatlining sex life in your marriage!
TAKING TOTAL INTIMACY TO UNPRECEDENTED HEIGHTS
We have taken our two decades of experience, both in counseling hundreds of couples and in navigating our own marriage, and created intimacy-boosting course packages and interactive workbooks to help spouses improve in each of the four areas of Total Intimacy. These training suites only form a small part of what’s available on-demand for all members of the 30-Day Intimacy Challenge. If you’re not quite ready to join and simply want to level up your relationship in one of these areas (hopefully you took our free intimacy assessment first and know where you and your spouse stand in each of these categories), you’ll get tremendous value with video modules, workbooks, and for a limited time, a host of added bonuses to help you discover how satisfying your intimacy and marriage can truly be!
Intimacy Through Radical Acceptance
In this course suite, you and your spouse will:
- Learn how to accept your partner's uniqueness as God-given assets instead of liabilities
- Recognize that God's unconditional love of your flawed self should encourage unconditional love of your flawed spouse
- Identify and curb your own superiority complexes and/or inadequacy issues which inhibit your ability to accept your partner
- Discover keys to investing effort and discipline into loving your spouse the way they need to be loved
Intimacy Through Communication
In this course suite, you and your spouse will:
- Learn the secrets to actively listening to your partner in a way that they know their feelings are both heard and valued
- Discover how to feel comfortable expressing your feelings without the fear of judgment
- Recognize the value of conflict and learn how to argue in a way that brings about peaceful solutions and opens up intimacy
- Understand keys to overcoming gridlocked conflict
Intimacy Through Real Foreplay
In this course suite, you and your spouse will:
- Discover the "foreplay of choreplay," where identifying and fulfilling roles and responsibilities of each spouse improves physical intimacy.
- Learn the Bible method of mutual submission and how it translates to higher sexual fulfillment
- Embrace strategies for showing respect and love towards each other and gauging how well you are maintaining both
- Discuss household activities and fill out an included chart indicating who is in charge of each component
Intimacy Through Physical Oneness
In this course suite, you and your spouse will:
- Discover that sexual fulfillment is a God-ordained job description
- Learn how to make your spouse feel happy, connected, and desired outside of the bedroom
- Understand the effects of low physical AND emotional intimacy on each spouse
- Discover what it truly means to be one flesh with your spouse and how to turn sex into the beautiful gift that God created it to be
ABOUT JOHN & APRIL
John and April are relationship coaches, content creators, and cohosts of the Just John and April Relationship Podcast. They have been coaching couples for as long as they’ve been married—over 20 years—and are committed to helping couples who struggle with connection to fire up their intimacy. They have two teenaged children: John III (16) and Julia (13). John is a pastor and April is a middle school teacher.